
How to Prioritize Preparedness When Your Spouse Doesn’t Care
So your spouse doesn’t care about food storage or other emergency essentials? Here are some tips to help you prioritize preparedness and keep your spouse happy.
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Everyday preparedness isn’t just about stockpiling for an emergency. It’s about setting yourself up to handle daily life with more peace, order, and flexibility. When you create simple systems and think ahead, you can handle the little surprises and big curveballs life throws at you.
Whether you’re figuring out how to be prepared for life at home, in your car, or while traveling, these tips will help you stay organized, save time, and reduce stress.
Preparedness is proactive, not reactive. It’s not living in fear, it’s living with peace of mind. When you’re prepared, you can prepare for unexpected events with confidence and flexibility.
Key Principles of Everyday Preparedness:
Awareness: Notice what’s happening around you and anticipate needs.
Proactivity: Plan ahead to prevent stress later.
Resourcefulness: Make the most of what you already have.
Adaptability: Be willing to adjust when things don’t go as planned.
Continuous Learning: Keep updating your skills and knowledge so you know how to be prepared for life no matter what stage you’re in.
A little organization now saves a lot of chaos later and it’s the heart of everyday preparedness.
Keep a family calendar in a visible place and use a family council meeting each week to go over schedules, responsibilities, and priorities.
Set repeating phone alarms for weekly tasks.
Schedule emails or texts so you don’t forget important sign-ups or reminders.
Use voice notes or Marco Polo yourself to capture ideas before you forget them.
Maintain separate to-do lists for each child so you can address their needs when you see them.
Label files with long, descriptive names so they’re easy to find later.
Keep a returns box by the door or in your trunk, along with a donations box.
Maintain an errands list so you can batch tasks when you’re already out.
Your vehicle is part of your everyday preparedness plan.
Keep at least half a tank of gas at all times.
Always have a water bottle and snacks with you.
Store a charged power bank with its cord in your car.
Keep a basic first aid kit in your glove box or trunk.
If you are looking for a more detailed and comprehensive list for your car emergency kit, check out this post.
When kids are involved in activities, last-minute scrambles are inevitable unless you plan ahead.
Keep sports bags packed and ready.
Charge all gear and power banks as soon as you get home.
Fill water bottles the night before.
Stock up on extras (balls, socks, gloves) so a missing item doesn’t ruin the day.
For the ultimate list of things to bring on game day, you’ll definitely want to take a look at this blog post. While it’s specific to baseball, there are plenty of ways to tweak the list for whatever sport your kids are involved in.
A little extra effort after shopping pays off all week.
Wash produce and portion snacks immediately.
Slice bagels, muffins, and cheeses for grab-and-go use.
Cut and portion meat before freezing. Bonus points if you use a food saver.
Keep a stash of “sick day” supplies like crackers, sports drinks, and medicine so you can prepare for unexpected illnesses.
Use weekends to meal plan (check your calendar first!), prep ingredients, and make protein snacks (we love these protein balls from A Bountiful Kitchen).
Travel is so much smoother when you plan for repeatability.
Save packing lists on your computer for recurring trips like camp or family cabins.
Keep babysitter/pet sitter instructions typed up to update easily.
Use labeled trash bags for laundry on trips (I use my Rollo thermal label maker to make labels to slap on the trash bags for different loads, so they’re ready to dump in the washing machine when we get home).
Keep a travel toiletries bag stocked year-round.
Restock and note missing items in your travel toiletries as soon as you unpack.
Always know the nearest hospital and have medical insurance info saved in your phone.
Looking for additional ways to prepare your home for while you’re away? This blog post has 8 simple, actionable tips.
Small thinking ahead habits save stress later:
Clean out the toy room in fall to make room for Christmas gifts.
Start Halloween costume talks in August.
Buy gifts early, especially milestone gifts like luggage for graduates or KitchenAids for new college students.
Take advantage of sales for mission or college prep
You don’t have to be a survivalist to embrace everyday preparedness, you just need a plan.
Keep doors closed at night for fire safety.
Maintain an “info hub” with critical family and emergency contacts.
Practice “what if” scenarios with your family.
Review your emergency plan every six months.
Be mindful of exits and safe zones when commuting or out in public.
Check the weather daily. This is a great list of different apps for emergency situations.
Keep basic skills fresh (fire extinguisher use, tire changing, knot tying).
Carry a small everyday kit (flashlight, multitool, first aid basics).
Stay informed about local news and events.
Maintain good health. Physical and mental strength are your best tools in any situation.
Knowing how to be prepared for life is about building small habits that help you prepare for unexpected situations without adding stress. You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight. Just start with one habit this week and add more as they become second nature.
A little everyday preparedness goes a long way toward creating a calmer, more confident, and more capable life for you and your family.
So your spouse doesn’t care about food storage or other emergency essentials? Here are some tips to help you prioritize preparedness and keep your spouse happy.
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